What is Sex for me?

I kept  asking myself this question...

I reflected long about it..

N finally decide to write it here what sex means for me..

What is sex for you Javed?

If you could so easily share the same thing with me and someone else at the same time... 

Well here is my version of how things are... And this is why if I am sharing this with you.. it is with you and only you... 

For me: ....

Sex is a force..

A force that has previously been fated for two people in love,,

A force known to everyone on this planet.. but mis-use by many..

We women of respect, are the greatest guardians of its secret..

Because of this force, some of us are doomed to wander a dangerous and aggressive world in pain…

We are the one who awaken this force or it is awaken by your better half..

Anyone who comes across this force with someone, unknowingly is bound to them for the rest of their life…

It is in everything around us..

It’s in the invisible world of ordinary people…

It can be killed, crushed, hidden, or even denied…

It can be dormant for years like it was for me..

But once experienced with love, it can never be forgotten….

Sex is a symbolic means of communication between two people’s soul…

You may have sex with someone but it isn’t same as making use of the force..

If you give your heart to it, pleasure and fear is equally present..

For me it is something which happens with all intensity when I loose control…

When I’m in bed with you, I’m giving you permission to you only to connect to my whole being..

The pure forces of life are all in interaction with each other… and we cannot hide who we really are..

It does not matter what image I hold of myself..

It does not matter what disguise I put on..

It does not matter what smart or honorable excuses I give..

When I’m with you, It is impossible to deceive you because it is when any person shows who they truly are..

It is when you make all my five senses work together in their full concentration..

I give away my trust.. my expectations. And my beliefs to the one I am loving..

When you are in love and have sex.. you are capable of learning anything and knowing things which you never dared to think about before..

Because love is the understanding of all mysteries..

If you are alone there is no point in understanding the universe..